At its core, "Secrets of Divine Love" is presented as a spiritual journey into the heart of Islam, though its message is intended to resonate with anyone, regardless of their religious path. The author, A. Helwa, believes that love is the very reason existence exists – the soil from which everything blossoms. She feels called to share teachings of love and mercy that she believes have been somewhat forgotten, aiming to return to the spiritual essence of Islam's message of love, mercy, peace, freedom, justice, and unity.
The book isn't meant to be a dry textbook on Islam. Instead, it offers heartfelt perspectives on Islamic theology, drawing on the Qur'an, the teachings of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), spiritual poetry, and stories from great spiritual masters. It also includes practical exercises designed to inspire love, strengthen faith, and deepen intimacy with God. The author emphasizes that her role is simply that of a "flower-picker," gathering ideas that are already planted within you by God. She even feels that the book's very existence is an answer to a sincere prayer from someone out there.
One of the central themes explored is the nature of God, often referred to interchangeably as Allah. The book explains that God, Elohim, Yahweh, or whatever name you use, is the supreme eternal Being with infinite names but only one essence. Allah is described as the Creator, the origin and cause of love. Love isn't just something God _does_; it's who God _is_. You can't separate love from God any more than you can separate water from the ocean.
A truly profound idea presented is God's omnipresence and proximity. The sources tell us that God is with you wherever you are, from the closest atom to the farthest star. The Qur'an even states that God is closer to us than our "jugular vein". The separation we sometimes feel isn't because God is far away, but paradoxically, because He is so incredibly close, like the air we breathe. This divine connection is innate, as God's love brought us to life and keeps us alive. Even in our darkest moments, God is with us, saying, "I am near". What an incredible thought to ponder: that the Creator of the universe is always, always right here!
Mercy is another cornerstone of the book's message, particularly highlighted through God's names Ar-Rahman (The Most Merciful/The Lord of Mercy) and Ar-Rahim (The Bestower of Mercy). These names, derived from the Arabic word `rahm` meaning "womb," imply that we can only experience God's truth from the all-embracing space of His mercy. Ar-Rahman is described as God's universal, infinite nature of mercy that shines upon all creation without discrimination, like the sky covering everything. Ar-Rahim is God's specific mercy shown in action to those who open their hearts to Him. The book emphasizes the extraordinary nature of `Rahman`, calling it an "extreme, infinite form of mercy that is beyond what can be understood by the human mind".
But wait, if God is so merciful, what about justice? The book addresses this by explaining that God's mercy and justice (`adl`) work together in harmony. Justice means proportion, symmetry, and equity. The sources use a beautiful metaphor: God's justice is like scolding hot water, and His mercy is like freezing cold water. Poured alone into the human heart (the clay vessel), either would break it. But mixed together, they create a neutralizing balance. If God were only merciful, there would be chaos; if only just, no one would survive. Thus, the possibility for harmony is created by bringing mercy and justice together. This helps us understand that while God is endlessly merciful, there is still accountability for our actions.
The book also delves into the profound question, "Who are you?". The answer offered is that you are an intentional creation of a perfect God, not a product of chance. You were created with a divine purpose, carrying the breath of God inside you, making you a bridge between Heaven and Earth. The beautiful human soul wasn't created to become something different, but to realize its inherent completeness and connection with God. The journey isn't about finding God, but remembering the intimate relationship we already have with Him. The Arabic word for human, `insan`, is linked to both "forgetfulness" and "intimacy". Our path is a "spiritual undressing" of what prevents us from seeing God is already with us.
This idea ties into the concept of sin and forgetfulness. Sin is viewed as a spiritual misstep, often rooted in forgetfulness of our innate goodness (`fitra`) and pre-eternal connection to God. When we sin, we turn away from God's light, experiencing a darkness not because God changes, but because we've closed ourselves off from His ever-present love. The ego (`nafs`) is described as a veil, a "translucent steam" created when the spirit touches the body, distorting our vision and creating a sense of separation. Purifying the ego helps us witness God's light.
Since God's love is unconditional and eternal, our journey isn't about earning or deserving it. It's about unwrapping the gift of divine love that's already within us. Our worthiness comes solely from God's generosity. Good deeds and turning towards God are important because they are the _means_ by which we experience the love God is already pouring upon us. We are like the moon, becoming fuller as we turn away from the darkness of the ego and towards the light of God's love.
How do we undertake this "spiritual undressing" and open ourselves to experiencing God's love? The book suggests various practices, often referred to as the pillars of Islam, but framed as ways to purify the heart and connect with the Divine.
- **Remembrance (`Dhikr`):** This is highlighted as one of the most powerful practices. Chanting "Ya Allah" or other divine names helps polish the heart, removing the "rust" of forgetfulness and bringing awareness back to the present moment where God is intimately experienced. The divine names are like medicine for the needy heart, and the vibration of the Arabic sounds can open our hearts to God's light.
- **Prayer (`Salat`):** Described as ritual body prayer that connects us to the divine reality five times a day, like a charging station for the spiritual heart. It helps us face our struggles and turn to God in our brokenness. It's not just physical motions but joining the universal state of praise. The repetitive nature helps crumble the ego.
- **Fasting (`Sawm`):** Temporarily abstaining from food and water helps weaken the ego's hold and amplify the spirit's guidance. It's seen as a voluntary death of the ego, allowing for a spiritual resurrection into God's presence.
- **Charity (`Sadaqah`/`Zakat`):** Giving, whether kind words or material wealth, is framed as expressing gratitude to God and acting as a conduit for His generosity. Serving others allows us to see that giving blossoms within ourselves.
- **Pilgrimage (`Hajj`/`Umrah`):** The journey to Mecca is a powerful symbol of letting go of worldly attachments and dissolving the individual self (`me`) into divine oneness (`You`/`Us`).
These practices, along with reflecting on God's creation and contemplating the Qur'an, are seen as tools to remove the veils of the ego and forgetfulness, allowing us to receive God's love and manifest our innate goodness. They help us see the world as a reflection of God and channel His qualities.
The book also touches on concepts like Heaven and Hell, framing them not just as future destinations but as states of being rooted in our relationship with God in this life. Heaven is seen as a state of utmost proximity and unity with God, where veils of separation are removed, and you are in direct witnessing of Him. Hell, conversely, is a state of separation and distance from God's mercy. However, even in Hell, God's mercy is not void; the fire is poetically seen as purifying the soul. Ultimately, living a life reflecting God's qualities helps us channel "Heaven on Earth".
Reflecting on these ideas opens up many avenues for further thought! For instance:
- How can we actively cultivate the awareness of God's presence being closer than our jugular vein in our daily lives? What practical steps can we take beyond formal prayer or remembrance?
- How can we distinguish between the voice of the ego and the whispering guidance of our spirit in practical situations? Are there signs to look for?
- The book suggests that how we see God is a reflection of how we see ourselves. How can we honestly assess our inner state and work on the parts that might be distorting our perception of the Divine?
- If God's love is unconditional, how does the concept of accountability and divine justice motivate us versus the motivation that comes from fear or seeking reward?
- The Qur'an is described as a living text and a divine frequency. How can we approach sacred texts not just intellectually, but with the "eyes and ears of our heart" to receive their deeper vibrations and light?
- Considering the powerful stories of prophets overcoming difficulties through trust, how can we cultivate that same deep reliance (`tawakul`) when facing our own seemingly insurmountable challenges?
- If our purpose is to be a reflection of God's love and mercy on Earth, how can we ensure our interactions with others, especially those different from us or who have wronged us, truly embody these qualities?
"Secrets of Divine Love" reminds us that we are created intentionally with a divine purpose. We already have everything we need within us. God's love is constant, and the path is about removing the veils of forgetfulness and ego to experience the divine reality that is already here. By surrendering to God and actualizing His qualities, we become reflections of Heaven on Earth.
It's truly a call to awaken to the beauty already planted within us and to let the light of God's love lead the way. What a journey!