This book is like a guide to unlocking a truly peaceful and joyful mind, based on some really profound ancient wisdom. It's designed to be super easy to get into, even though it talks about some deep stuff! Think of it as a map showing you how to find happiness that lasts, instead of just searching for it out there in the world.
The whole book is built around a short but powerful text called the "Eight Verses of Training the Mind," written way back in the eleventh century by a Tibetan Buddhist Master named Bodhisattva Langri Tangpa. Even though it's only eight verses, this text apparently holds the very heart of the Buddhist path to enlightenment. The goal? To help us transform our minds from their usual state – often feeling confused and a bit too focused on ourselves – into something truly special: the perfect wisdom and compassion of an enlightened Buddha.
**Meet the Author of the Verses: Bodhisattva Langri Tangpa**
Knowing a little about the person who wrote these verses can really help us appreciate them more. Bodhisattva Langri Tangpa, whose actual name was Dorje Senge, was a Kadampa Buddhist Master from Tibet. He was a student of Geshe Potowa, who was a principal disciple of the famous Master Atisha, the one who founded Kadampa Buddhism in Tibet. Langri Tangpa became known by his nickname, which translates roughly to "Grim Face," because he always seemed to have a stern, unsmiling expression. This wasn't because he was unhappy, though! He explained that he found it hard to smile when he saw the suffering of others. His deep compassion meant he felt like crying instead of laughing whenever he saw someone. Isn't that an interesting perspective on compassion?
Despite his serious outward appearance, people gradually came to see his extraordinary inner nature. They knew he was a holy being and made him many offerings. What did he do with them? He immediately gave them all away to his Spiritual Guide, Geshe Potowa, and his community of disciples. He even made promises to always give away his possessions and not stay in one place for long. By embracing poverty and constantly practising generosity, he accumulated a huge amount of "merit," which the source describes as good fortune or positive energy from virtuous actions. This merit actually led to him becoming wealthy later in life, able to support a large monastery and help many poor people, all without any business activities or effort to acquire wealth. It's quite a story about the power of giving!
Langri Tangpa really lived by the principles he taught, especially the idea of accepting defeat and offering the victory to others. There's a touching story about a young woman whose sick child was told by a Lama that only Geshe Langri Tangpa could save her. Even though he was a monk teaching a large audience, the woman placed the baby in his lap, asking him to care for her. To everyone's surprise, he accepted, tenderly wrapping the child in his robe and continuing his teaching. He cared for the child for two years, healing her through his blessings. This kind of selfless action showed everyone what a special person he was. The source also mentions that Langri Tangpa is an emanation of Buddha Amitabha, and it's believed that his emanations are still working in the world to benefit beings and spread the teachings, even if we don't recognize them due to our own ignorance.
**The Heart of the Teachings: Changing Your Mind**
So, what's the big deal about these teachings? The source says they are incredibly precious because they come from the wisdom of a fully enlightened being. By putting them into practice, you can experience both temporary happiness in this life and ultimate happiness, which is enlightenment. The core way they achieve this is by helping us eliminate the ignorant mind of self-cherishing and self-grasping, which the source identifies as the root of all our suffering and problems. The source is really clear: our problems and suffering aren't "out there"; they are internal states of mind, feelings. If your car breaks down, that's an outer problem needing external solutions. But unhappiness, worry, pain – those are internal, and they need internal solutions, like developing a peaceful mind.
The source explains that true, pure happiness can only be achieved by developing our mind, improving qualities like love, compassion, and wisdom. By doing this, we can eliminate suffering and eventually reach the lasting joy of enlightenment. The book essentially _guarantees_ that if you practice these mind-training instructions, you will find the inner peace and joy everyone is searching for. This is seen as the real meaning of seeking happiness from a different source than just external things.
**Getting Ready to Practice: The Preliminary Steps**
You might be eager to jump right into the main teachings, but the source wisely points out the importance of "preliminary practices". Think of it like a farmer preparing the ground before planting seeds. Without getting the soil ready, you can't expect a good harvest. Many people get excited about meditation but skip these steps, and then they're disappointed when they don't get results.
The preliminary practices serve three key purposes:
1. **Purifying negativity:** This is like removing the rocks and weeds from the field. Our minds are currently polluted by the imprints of negative thoughts and actions from this life and countless past lives. Until we purify this negativity, it blocks the growth of positive qualities and hinders meditation.
2. **Accumulating merit:** This is like fertilizing the soil to give the seeds strength. Merit is the positive energy from virtuous actions. A mind enriched with merit is strong enough to support the growth of spiritual realizations.
3. **Receiving blessings:** This is like watering the field so the seeds can grow. Blessings, described as inspiring energy from Buddhas and Bodhisattvas, activate our virtuous potentials. They are received by developing strong faith and devotion and requesting them. The source emphasizes that living beings generally have no power to develop a peaceful mind alone; it's through receiving Buddha's blessings that they can. This is why Buddha is seen as the source of happiness for all beings. Faith, in this context, is vital; it's the life force of spiritual practice, opening our mind to receive blessings.
The source outlines a simple way to engage in these preliminaries at the start of each meditation session. This involves reciting specific prayers and performing six preparatory practices:
1. **Cleaning the meditation room and setting up a shrine:** Cleaning uplifts the mind, and setting up a shrine (with representations of Buddha's body, speech, and mind) provides a focus for faith and a constant reminder of the path. Simply seeing these blessed representations can place a potentiality for enlightenment on the mind that nothing can destroy.
2. **Arranging beautiful offerings:** This is part of accumulating merit and showing respect to the holy beings.
3. **Sitting in the correct meditation posture, going for refuge, and generating bodhichitta:** Finding a good posture helps calm the mind. Going for refuge to the Three Jewels (Buddha, Dharma, Sangha) is seen as the gateway to entering Buddhism and is done with the understanding that only they can truly protect us. Generating bodhichitta, the wish to attain enlightenment _for the sake of all living beings_, is the highest motivation and the gateway to Mahayana Buddhism. It gives limitless merit.
4. **Visualizing the Field for Accumulating Merit:** This involves imagining the assembly of enlightened beings (Buddha Shakyamuni, Guru, lineage Gurus, Buddhas, Bodhisattvas) in the space before you. This assembly is called the "Field for Accumulating Merit" because it's where the "seeds" of our faith and devotion grow into "crops" of merit. The source notes that these holy beings are really present; visualization is just a way to open our minds to that reality. An interesting detail is visualizing Buddha Amitabha at the heart of Buddha Shakyamuni (or instead of him) to strengthen connection with Langri Tangpa, who is an emanation of Amitabha. This helps receive his blessings more quickly.
5. **Offering the seven limbs and the mandala:** The seven limbs (prostration, offering, confession, rejoicing, beseeching, requesting, dedication) are practices that accumulate and multiply merit and purify negative karma. They support our meditation like limbs support a body. Offering the mandala means offering the entire universe, mentally transformed into a Pure Land, to the holy beings. This is a powerful way to create merit and attain good fortune.
6. **Requesting the holy beings to bestow their blessings:** This is a prayer asking for our minds to be transformed from unhappy and non-virtuous to happy and virtuous. Blessings are visualized as lights and nectars that pacify negativity and increase positive qualities.
**Training the Mind: The Core Path**
The main practice of training the mind, or Lojong, involves transforming our basic attitudes. The source highlights two primary aspects: conventional bodhichitta and ultimate bodhichitta. The first seven verses of Langri Tangpa's text focus on developing **conventional bodhichitta**, which is the wish to attain enlightenment to benefit all living beings. This is fundamentally about developing boundless compassion and love. The eighth verse then introduces **ultimate bodhichitta**, a wisdom that directly understands the true nature of reality, emptiness, while still motivated by that vast compassion. Think of them as the two wings of a bird, both necessary to fly to enlightenment.
A central theme in developing conventional bodhichitta is letting go of our intense focus on ourselves, which the source calls **self-cherishing**. Self-cherishing is described as a deluded mind that sees a non-existent "self" as supremely important and is considered the root of all our ordinary problems and suffering, binding us to samsara (the cycle of impure life). The source even suggests blaming self-cherishing for _everything_ that goes wrong. The worst fault for someone aspiring to enlightenment is self-cherishing, as it blocks compassion and bodhichitta.
The antidote to self-cherishing is **cherishing others**. This means seeing every living being as important and developing a caring attitude towards them. The source argues this is the _best_ way to solve our own problems too, because if we genuinely cherish others, there's no room for jealousy, anger, or other harmful thoughts that disturb our peace. It leads to better relationships and overall happiness. Cherishing others is described as the supreme good heart, the essence of the Mahayana path, and the main cause of great compassion. It ultimately leads us to Buddhahood. The source encourages us to train our minds to cherish all beings, even starting with family and friends and gradually extending that feeling.
The source introduces the idea of **equalizing self and others**, which means seeing that the happiness of others is just as important as our own. It appeals to our sense of fairness – we are just one person, while other suffering beings are countless. Wouldn't you sacrifice one finger to save nine? Similarly, countless beings are more important than one self.
Building on this, the more challenging practice is **exchanging self with others**. This is where you truly prioritize the needs and wishes of others above your own, seeing yourself as their servant. This practice aims to completely destroy self-cherishing. The source clarifies that this doesn't mean neglecting your own well-being foolishly; you care for yourself _for the sake of others_, because becoming a Buddha is the only way to truly benefit everyone, and your human form is the vehicle for that. This exchange practice is part of a special lineage and requires deep faith, merit, and blessings.
**Patience in the Face of Difficulty**
Training the mind also involves cultivating **patience**. This is described as happily accepting difficulties and harm from others with a virtuous intention. Patience brings stability to the mind, making it easier to develop love, compassion, and bodhichitta. The source offers a radical perspective: those who harm or deceive us can actually be seen as our Spiritual Teachers. Why? Because they shake us out of complacency and inspire us to practice more strongly. This allows us to transform difficulties into opportunities for spiritual growth.
This leads to the practice of **accepting defeat and offering the victory**. When someone harms or insults us, instead of retaliating, we accept the difficulty with a mind of love and compassion. This practice protects us from discouragement and helps us cultivate patience. However, the source adds a crucial point about wisdom here: don't accept defeat if it prevents you from fulfilling your greater wish to benefit countless beings. Sometimes, you might even need to protect yourself for the sake of being able to help others more effectively later. It's about managing your time, energy, and resources skilfully for maximum benefit.
**The Practice of Taking and Giving (Tonglen)**
The culmination of developing compassion and love is the practice of **taking and giving**, known as Tonglen in Tibetan. This is a profound meditation where you imagine taking on the suffering and problems of all other beings and giving them your own happiness and good qualities. At first, you can't literally do this, but by imagining it, you train your mind and ripen your potential to eventually be able to.
In **taking**, you inhale the suffering, delusions, and negative actions of others in the form of black smoke, imagining it dissolving into your heart and destroying your self-cherishing. This practice strengthens your compassion and builds courage to face adversity. It also accumulates a lot of merit, which can help you fulfill your own and others' wishes.
In **giving**, motivated by wishing love, you exhale your own happiness, future enlightenment, and positive qualities in the form of light, imagining it pervading the universe and fulfilling the needs and wishes of all beings, bringing them pure happiness and enlightenment.
The source suggests combining taking and giving with the breath: inhaling suffering as black smoke, exhaling happiness as wisdom light. It emphasizes that faithfully practising this meditation, even starting with imagination, is a quick path to enlightenment because it's similar to Tantric practices that involve strongly imagining the desired result to achieve it.
**The Wisdom Wing: Ultimate Bodhichitta and Emptiness**
While conventional bodhichitta focuses on compassion and benefiting others, **ultimate bodhichitta** is the wisdom realizing **emptiness**. Emptiness, in Buddhism, isn't about things not existing at all, but about their lack of inherent existence – they don't exist from their own side, independent of our minds. This might sound tricky, but understanding it directly destroys self-grasping, the very root of suffering.
The source explains that everything appears to exist inherently to our ordinary minds, like an illusion. But by investigating, we find this isn't the case. For example, when you look closely at a book, you realize it's just a collection of pages and a cover, labeled "book" by your mind. There's no independent "bookness" there. The same applies to ourselves – our "self" exists, but only as a "mere imputation" by the mind, not as something findable or existing inherently. The unfindability of this inherent self is its emptiness.
Realizing emptiness directly is achieving ultimate bodhichitta. This is described as the first completely non-mistaken awareness, undefiled by the imprints of grasping at inherent existence. It brings immense peace and happiness, freeing the mind from being disturbed by external conditions or even physical pain. The source mentions the "eight extremes" that this wisdom is free from, referring to philosophical extremes related to understanding emptiness, not the eight worldly concerns.
Training in ultimate bodhichitta involves meditating on emptiness, first conceptually and then directly. This requires having a stable concentration (tranquil abiding) and a clear wisdom realizing emptiness (superior seeing).
**Making it Happen: Integrating Practice with the Five Forces**
How do we take all these profound teachings and actually apply them in our busy lives? The source introduces the concept of integrating mind training practice using **five forces**. These help us make consistent progress:
1. **Force of Motivation:** Having a strong, firm decision and wish to practice these instructions sincerely and diligently. This is crucial for generating effort. Reading and contemplating the teachings helps strengthen this. Making a resolution each day to practice is also part of this force.
2. **Force of Familiarity:** Repeatedly practising the instructions, both in meditation sessions and daily life, until they become deeply ingrained and stable experiences. It's like learning a new skill; repetition is key.
3. **Force of White Seed:** Accumulating merit, which is the positive energy from virtuous actions. This supports the growth of spiritual realizations. Daily preliminary practices, especially offerings, are important ways to do this.
4. **Force of Destruction:** Actively working to eliminate inner and outer obstacles to practice. Inner obstacles include delusions like self-grasping, self-cherishing, laziness, and wrong views, as well as imprints of past negative actions. Outer obstacles include not having a qualified Teacher or opportunities to practice, or lacking basic necessities. Purification practices are necessary to overcome these obstacles.
5. **Force of Aspirational Prayer:** Making specific prayers before starting a practice to gain its realization, and dedicating the merit created at the end towards achieving that realization. Requesting blessings from enlightened beings is a powerful aspect of this force, as their blessings are seen as essential for progress.
By applying these five forces to the practices from Langri Tangpa's Eight Verses, the source states we gather all the necessary causes and conditions for deep realizations, and nothing can prevent them from arising.
Additionally, the source mentions observing the **commitments and precepts of training the mind** as another way to protect and enhance practice. While not formal vows, making a determination to keep them helps. Eight precepts of aspiring bodhichitta are specifically highlighted as supreme for maintaining and enhancing bodhichitta, such as remembering the benefits of bodhichitta and generating it regularly, not abandoning any living being, accumulating merit and wisdom, and avoiding actions that harm one's relationship with their Spiritual Guide or fellow practitioners. Keeping these precepts purely helps the mind wishing for enlightenment grow stronger and more stable.
A key point for integrating the practice is that you don't need to abandon your normal life. The teaching advises to "Remain natural while changing your aspiration". You continue to live in human society, behaving normally, but you change your _internal_ attitude. The real transformation happens within the mind; changing your mind to love and compassion will naturally lead to positive outward actions that can inspire others.
**The Ultimate Goal**
The ultimate outcome of sincerely training the mind, following these steps, is the attainment of full enlightenment, or Buddhahood. This is the state of complete freedom from all delusions and faults, possessing omniscient wisdom and the limitless ability to help all beings directly. A Buddha's happiness is described as radiating eternally as compassion, benefiting everyone. It is the source of all happiness. Becoming a Buddha means becoming a true object of refuge for all living beings.
The source lists the **six perfections** (giving, moral discipline, patience, effort, concentration, wisdom) as the actual method for becoming a Buddha. When motivated by bodhichitta, these practices become "perfections" and are considered the main highway to enlightenment. The source also mentions the **twenty-two types of bodhichitta**, which represent the increasing strength and qualities of bodhichitta as a practitioner advances on the path through different stages or "grounds". Examples are given like 'new-moon-like bodhichitta' associated with concentration, 'fire-like bodhichitta' with wisdom, and 'wish-granting-jewel-like bodhichitta' with the power of prayer. These illustrate the progressive journey towards ultimate realization.
By consistently applying these instructions, from cultivating love and compassion to realizing emptiness, and integrating the practice using the five forces and commitments, the source guarantees that transformation is possible. Just like Bodhisattva Langri Tangpa and countless others before, we too can eliminate self-cherishing and gain profound realizations, ultimately becoming a Buddha with the power to bring happiness to all living beings. Isn't that an incredible possibility to explore?
**Further Ideas and Questions to Explore:**
- How can we practically integrate watching our minds throughout the day, like Geshe Ben Gungyal did with his pebbles?
- What are some everyday situations where we can consciously practice accepting defeat and offering the victory, and how can we apply the wisdom needed to ensure it benefits others in the long run?
- Thinking about the story of Shri Datta the fly, how does the concept of "virtuous potentiality" left by even unintentional contact with holy objects or teachings impact our understanding of encountering Dharma in daily life?
- The source mentions specific prayers for the preliminary practices in an Appendix. How do the words of those prayers reflect the intentions and visualizations described in the text?
- The idea of the 22 types of bodhichitta shows how this mind of enlightenment develops. Could exploring the qualities associated with each type provide further inspiration for the path?
- If emptiness is the unfindability of inherent existence, how does contemplating the lack of inherent existence in ordinary objects around us (like the book example) help weaken our grasping?
- How does developing "unshakeable faith" in Buddha's teachings, described as the life force of spiritual practice, relate to receiving blessings and making progress?