This book isn't a straightforward philosophical treatise but rather a "Fragment of Life," presented as a collection of papers found and edited. The title itself signals the core structure and theme: a stark choice between two fundamentally different ways of living.
**The Basic Setup: Two Ways of Life**
At its heart, _Either/Or_ presents two distinct perspectives on life, embodied by two pseudonymous authors whose papers make up the book's two parts.
1. **Part One: The Aesthetic Life (Author A)**
- This section contains various aesthetic essays, reflections, and aphorisms, including "Diapsalmata" and "The Seducer's Diary".
- The aesthetic viewpoint, as explored here, is primarily focused on enjoyment, pleasure, and living in the moment. It's characterized by wit, irony, observation, and calculation of the instant.
- Aesthetic existence is described as living "in and by and of and for the aesthetic factor" in oneself, which is "that by which he is immediately what he is".
- This way of life is seen as constantly residing in the moment, leading to a disintegration of life and an inability to explain it in a coherent way. It seeks to enjoy life.
- However, this pursuit of enjoyment and living in the moment ultimately leads to despair, as it is built upon things that "may or may not be". A mature aesthete's life might involve ingenious manipulation and relying on imagination to enjoy the _idea_ of things rather than the things themselves, potentially driving them into a corner.
2. **Part Two: The Ethical Life (Author B / Judge Vilhelm)**
- This part consists of two long letters and one shorter inquiry, all ethical in content, written by an older figure, Judge Vilhelm, to the younger aestheticist.
- The ethical life is defined as "that whereby a person becomes what he becomes". It involves a commitment to duty, responsibility, and living in continuity with one's past and future.
- Judge Vilhelm advocates for choosing oneself in one's "eternal validity". This is not a passive acceptance but an active "choice of oneself," which involves acknowledging the human ability to ask what it means to be human and staking out one's future according to a view of life that includes familial and social responsibilities.
- The ethical individual takes responsibility for their entire being, including their past, and works to integrate their particular personality into the universal human existence. This requires a conscious effort to order and temper one's various capacities and inclinations.
- Unlike the aesthetic life, which develops out of necessity like a plant, the ethical life develops through freedom and choice.
**The Central "Either/Or": Choice and Despair**
The core tension in the book lies in the necessary transition between these two spheres. Judge Vilhelm argues that the aesthetic life, despite its allure, inevitably leads to despair. He challenges the aestheticist (and the reader) to make a choice – not merely between good and evil initially, but a more fundamental choice _to_ choose.
- **The Nature of the Choice:** This isn't just picking between options outside oneself. The choice is described as "of oneself," an act where the personality immerses itself in what is chosen.
- **Radical vs. Ethical Choice:** Some interpretations, drawing from modern existentialism, see this as a "radical" or "criterionless" choice, where one stands outside the options and chooses arbitrarily, essentially picking rather than choosing based on reasons. This view suggests an inability for meaningful dialogue between the aesthetic and ethical spheres because they offer different grounds for justification.
- **Judge Vilhelm's View:** Vilhelm argues that the "absolute either/or" is the choice between good and evil, which is "absolutely ethical". Choosing the ethical is choosing the good, initially in an abstract sense, but this choice makes the difference between good and evil real for the individual. The ethical choice requires energy, earnestness, and feeling; through this inwardness, the personality is purified and brought into relation with an eternal power. The ethical choice is seen as the true act of choosing, while the aesthetic choice is either immediate (no choice) or lost in multiplicity.
- **Choosing Despair:** Paradoxically, Vilhelm advises the aestheticist to "choose despair". This isn't an endorsement of despair itself, but a recognition that confronting the emptiness of the aesthetic life (despair) is the necessary precondition for making the ethical choice and "choosing oneself" in one's "eternal validity". It's through this choice that one gains oneself.
**The Role of Pseudonymity**
Adding layers of complexity, Kierkegaard uses multiple pseudonyms (Victor Eremita, A, B/Vilhelm). This practice serves several purposes mentioned in the source:
- **Disowning Authority:** It allows the writings to exist independently, becoming "considerations in the mind of the reader" rather than assertions from an acknowledged author.
- **Absolving Responsibility:** It frees the writer from personal responsibility for the views expressed, offering freedom of movement.
- **Presenting Different Perspectives:** The pseudonyms represent distinct points of view or "spheres of existence" (aesthetic, ethical), allowing Kierkegaard to "exhibit the existential relationship" between them without necessarily endorsing one over the other as his own final position. The editor, Victor Eremita, even hints at the possibility of a "neither/nor" conclusion.
**Context and Motivation**
While the work stands on its own, the source introduction provides some context:
- Kierkegaard looked back on _Either/Or_ as part of his larger project of "Christian awakening". However, it was written before his notion of a Christian "leap" fully crystallized.
- Motivations likely included his personal decision to break off his engagement (reflecting a "fateful choice") and his engagement with contemporary philosophy, particularly seeking a radical criticism of Hegelianism.
- Kierkegaard sought to "assassinate" the prevalent "both/and" of mediation, mediocrity, and spiritlessness which he felt made Christianity too commensurable with finite life. He used the "either/or" as an "explosive" to disrupt this.
- He aimed to remind his age, which he felt had forgotten what it means "to exist, and what inwardness signifies," concepts overshadowed by Hegelian philosophy's focus on knowledge and system. _Either/Or_ is presented as a necessary preliminary ("prolegomenon") to understanding religious and Christian existence.
- Later in life, Kierkegaard expressed regrets about not having married or taken an official position. Some speculate this might suggest a feeling of having remained "incompletely revealed" or having failed to attain true selfhood according to Vilhelm's ethical ideal. However, later pseudonyms like Anti-Climacus added a God-relationship to the definition of selfhood, suggesting Kierkegaard might have felt he surpassed Vilhelm's ideal in other ways. He also later described Vilhelm's defense of marriage as potentially based on the Judge's own shortcomings and needs rather than a higher ethical ground.
**Interpretation and Challenges**
- _Either/Or_ is a classic that invites interpretation, offering practical choices (like whether to read the whole thing or an abridgement) and interpretational ones.
- Contemporaries and later readers approach the work from different perspectives, influenced by time, cultural context, and subsequent philosophical movements (like existentialism).
- Some readers find Judge Vilhelm's ethical arguments difficult to accept, seeing him as boring or even a hypocrite, and may favor the aesthetic perspective. This can be due to a "cultural cleft" where modern attitudes make it hard to take Vilhelm's seriousness seriously.
- The pseudonymous structure encourages readers to engage directly with the presented views rather than seeking a definitive authorial message.
- The dialectical structure, where arguments for the aesthetic life are countered by ethical arguments, makes it hard _not_ to see the work as a kind of dialogue, even if a truly "radical choice" interpretation would suggest dialogue is impossible between the spheres.
**Further Ideas to Explore:**
- **The nature of subjectivity and inwardness:** How do these concepts, championed by Kierkegaard against Hegelianism, play out in the aesthetic and ethical lives?
- **The role of choice:** What are the implications of choice being decisive for personality? How does the "choice of oneself" redefine one's past and future?
- **Despair as a philosophical concept:** How is despair presented not just as a mood but potentially a necessary step toward selfhood or the ethical?
- **The relationship between the universal and the particular:** How does the ethical individual integrate being a unique person with being a universal human being and fulfilling duty?
- **Kierkegaard's critique of philosophy:** How does he use literary means and the concept of "either/or" to challenge systematic philosophy's approach to existence, especially Hegelianism?
- **The significance of the absent religious stage:** _Either/Or_ focuses on the aesthetic and ethical. How does the later mention of a religious perspective hint at a further 'either/or' beyond the scope of this work?
- **The complexities of the ethical defense of marriage:** Given Kierkegaard's personal life and later comments, how should one interpret Judge Vilhelm's arguments for marriage and family life?
_Either/Or_ is a challenging but rewarding work that uses its unconventional structure to provoke readers into confronting fundamental questions about how to live. By presenting the aesthetic and ethical as profound, albeit conflicting, possibilities, it forces a reflection on the choices that shape identity and meaning.